And I feel sick to the pit of my stomach.
Name changed for this. This is very much related to his mother, who is an utter criminal. Please bear with me, its a bit long...
Basically, been married 4 years, 2 dc. Was very reluctant to marry him as he was always up to his neck in debts, blacklisted and well I wanted a family and stability. In the end he got a job and we both worked very hard to pay off his debts. We were never able to get a mortgage, we are now living in a tiny flat that every member of my family and extended family have loaned us the money for.
His mother, is awful. A couple of years ago she got herself £120k in debt. Thats credit cards, store cards...all of the money gets spent on 'designer' clothing and she is constantly scorning me for the 'cheap' clothes I wear.
My DH helped her pull a scam with a dodgy solicitor whereby they claimed she was mentally ill, and unable to pay the companies back, so she now has a settlement to pay about £10 per month towards the total amount. This was preceeded by a mad shopping spree where she spent thousands of pounds in EACH store exhausting the limit on each card. It was disgusting to watch.
A few months ago she was caught out for commiting benefit fraud (she was working but claiming 'disability benefit' - the disability being that she is depressed, she's not)
A couple of weeks ago she was hit by a bus. The truth is, she NEVER looks before she crosses the road. My DH and I have argued over the years because I would never allow her to take my DC out as I had seen her pushing the pram into the road without looking, and walking with her alone seen her many times just walking into the road.
Now, she has been hit by a bus...obviously because as per usual she wasnt looking..and needless to say: IS MAKING A CLAIM FOR COMPENSATION!
And the saddest thing is that Ive found out (he is denying it) that my DH is helping her.
Im posting because I dont know what to do or how to feel about being married to this man and his awful family.
I feel terrible for the poor bus driver who is going to probably be out of a job because this vile woman is going to pull yet another scam.
I might post this in legal too.
ANy advice??? Sorry so long
thankyou for reading
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Think my husband's involved in fraud...
stirling · 22/06/2008 21:52
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