i am having a complete nightmare and don't know what to do anymore with regards to my marriage.i am trying so hard to be supportive and loving to a man who constantly is insecure, and i just dunno if i can do it anymore. i have a stepson who is 8 and on fri he said he did noy want to come and so my husband blamed me and said it's because i am too strict etc etc. its just one thing in a long line of stuff of being told i do everything wrong. last night we were looking at where to move to and stepson is now her and my lo 2.8 kept giving toys to husband and he kept telling him no but lo did'nt listen to which husband turned around and said to me and said if you would spend half as much time telling lo off as much as you do to the one who doesn't live here we would not have half these problems. this from the idiot who half an hour earlier stopped me from carrying out punishment on lo for biting me cos he did'nt like to see him cry[i put his toy cat outside until he said he was sorry] he then said they would cope on their own . now my problem is this every time something does not go his way he says he wants to be on his own etc and gets quite nasty verbally to which all ends in tears .i am seriousl considering leaving but if i do i will have to move to the orknies near my mom and da dwhich means my lo will not see his dad and brother except once a year but how will this affect my lo
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i feel really sad for my little boy and i dunno what to do anymore
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dunnowhattodobest · 22/06/2008 08:33
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