I'm not expecting anyone to have any wise words for me. Or even to have sympathy, as I know how pathetic I am. Just feeling a bit lonely today and want to get it down, anonymous-like. At least, I hope it's anonymous!
I am still so ridiculously hung-up on an old relationship. It's been the best part of a decade since we split. It was my decision (cold feet, long story). Almost everything about my life is different now to what it was then. He, as far as I know, is happily settled; in fact I think he's married. I will probably never lay eyes on him again.
There is no rational reason for feeling this way. I know I should be getting on with my life, and to the outside world, I have. I am in charge of my life, I have goals and responsibilities and am a together person who is strong and capable. And yet... inside I am in exactly the same place I was all those years ago. I still feel utterly lost. I still dream about him - regularly, weekly, fgs. There are still places that I can hardly bear to go, songs I can't listen to, etc, without stirring up all these memories.
I feel completely pathetic. Why can't I get past this? I am starting to come to the conclusion that I am just going to be alone with stupid memories forever. I have done everything I can think of to let go of the past and I just can't. Am even beginning to think that maybe I need to to 'see someone' to talk about this, because it's not normal, is it? Am I mad, or just a sad case?
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It's been nearly 10 years and I still miss him every single bloody day
SadCow · 21/06/2008 17:43
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