I recently moved in with my partner, we have lived together for around 2 months.
Anyway I have a photo of me and my ex and my two children together on a boat in Spain. It was one of those "day trip" events where they take a family photo before you set off and then sell it to you for so many euros. I love photography so always buy stuff like that.
Anyway I no longer see this ex at all or speak to him and am unlikely to ever again. He is not my children's father.
Now my current partner has become all stroppy about the photos of the ex and asked me to get rid of them. He isn't bothered about the photos I have of my children's dad, just of this other ex.
So I got rid of all of the ones that I had (didn't bother me) but didn't want to get rid of this holiday one, its in a display card and I don't want to keep it for the sake of him being on it, its just because of where it was taken and because it has the kids on.
However the photo is not a huge deal to me, I have loads of other photos of the holiday so i could just chuck this one and it wouldn't matter BUT I am concerned that current partner is starting to show controlling issues.
Could this be seen as controlling or should I stop making a big deal out of it and just throw the photo away?
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Is he trying to control me or should I do as he asks
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OldAtHeart · 15/06/2008 13:21
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