My ex and I separated just under a year ago. I am quite highly sexed but, unsurprisingly with a little one at home, haven't had any action since then. Earlier today, my ex practically offered sex on a plate to me and I surprised myself by being sorely tempted: it had never occurred to me until today that I might sleep with my ex again. But I said a calm, friendly "no", with a bit of ramble about emotional confusion, etc, even though other parts of me were screaming "yes"!
A bit of background: despite initial hostility, my ex and I are now friendly. We're not actively trying to re-build our relationship, but are spending time together every now and then, agenda-less, just to see how we get along - I suppose motivated by DS and the good times of old.
So, would sex muddy the water?
Argh - I'm asking questions which, really, I know the answers to. I am just sooo raring to go at the moment , and this is - at least in some respects - the easiest way for me to get it.
Cold shower, methinks.
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Sex with ex - is it always a bad idea?
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girlgottahaveit · 14/06/2008 23:52
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