At the weekend my husband bought a load of beers in and sat in front of the TV with them. We were having a laugh, kids were in bed etc and by about 11pm he was quite drunk.
He suffers from hayfever and also has a cold so had been blowing his nose all day and when I was trying to watch a film I got a bit snappy with him as it was getting annoying (I know, I shouldnt have got mad over that).
And then he said "I know, it's pissing me off too", 10 minutes later he blew his nose really hard and let loads of it drip down his face and then turned to me and said "is that better?" and laughed with his face full of snot. It nearly made me sick and I said "don't be so disgusting, that's not even funny" and so he let it drip into his mouth and then sucked it out of his nose .
I said he was disgusting and he just laughed at me and I went to bed.
The next morning he said I was being a "right moody cow" the night before and that if I told anyone what he'd done he was going to make everyone believe it was me and that I was too embarrassed to admit it and so was blaming it on him . I said I had no intentions of telling anyone anyway.
On monday morning he went to work and he phond me and asked what I wanted for tea and then said "how about a snot sandwich?" and all his mates started laughing in the background and then he was going on and one of them shouted "you minger". So basically he'd gone and told everyone at work that I'd done it.
I was really cross with him on monday night and told him so and said I didn't find it funny at all and was sick of him trying to make me look stupid. He aplogised and said he was "Just having a bit of a laugh" but he always does stuff like this.
Anyway we didn't speak about it again until yesterday when we went to visit my grandma and he told everyone "his" version of what had happened that night in front of my grandma, her husband, my aunt and my cousin. All of them believed him and tutted and looked away and my aunt said "a joke is a joke but that is just vile" and nobody believed me when I said it was him and not me and he sat there playing the victim.
He now reckons I am a grumpy cow and can't take a joke and if I'm going to be so miserable I should get together with an old person who will be as boring as me.
So please be honest, am I being a miserable cow?
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donnaride · 13/06/2008 14:11
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