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How do you spend your evenings?

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Martha200 · 17/12/2007 16:30

I am not sure if I am feeling down in the dumps because I am pregnant and seem to be taking things the 'wrong way' but am curious to know how you and your OH and children spend your evenings during the week. Is it much diffferent to the weekends?

I am trying to decide whether or to what extent I might be reasonable/unreasonable.

My DH works funny hours at times, sometimes in the office sometimes at home, and when he has finished he wants us all to head for the pub. He does not have a problem with drink, but sometimes I think I would like to stay in more at home but then I think well he has been stuck in all day too or all day at the office, so maybe we should go out, and yeah it's nice, but we seem to be going out so much lately. Maybe he is trying to make the most of the time we have left before number2 arrives, our ds is a happy child who doesn't mind what we do. I think maybe I am misreading signs that are simply not present, making out in my head that he feels that he always wants to be out when that might not be the case.. anyway, am curious to know what other familes do/how often you go out?

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mad4mybaby · 17/12/2007 17:34

me and my dh used to be the same before ds. My midweek eves tend to be the same as w/e other than perhaps seeing family or renting a dvd!

Every day is the same for my ds, like to stick to routing as much as poss.

When your pg you do take things the wrong way, you cant help it, its the hormones!!

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rdk · 19/12/2007 22:40

im in the same boat as you im pg, dp does funny hours at work and all he does when he gets home is sleep, weve had a row tonight about it but it goes in one ear and out the other he will the same tomorrow [sleep] all i can say is at least you have a bit of adult time with him even if he has had a drink i dont even get that i just hear zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz.hope all works out for you oh yeah the only time me and dd really spend with dp is weekend.

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