I thought we had xmas all sorted I was having DS for xmas & Ex DH was having him for new year as we have always swapped round.And we had discussed this years plans, but poor DS (10) is now confused as when I put him to bed last night I asked why he was upset & he said that dad & Ex DH girlfriend has invited him to her house for xmas & that Ex DH girlfriend would spend as much on him as she does on her own 2 DC (which is about £500 each) but he doesnt know what to do as doesnt want to upset anyone. I have said do what makes you happy & of course I would like to have xmas with him but if he wants to go there for xmas I am happy with that to. - Have I said the right thing? I am mad with Ex DH as I feel he should have said something to me before saying to DS. Help needed on how to handle the situation.
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EX DH invites DS to his for xmas with out discussing with me
gorgeousfeebie · 17/12/2007 10:17
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