I am a reg with a name change as I know some people on here in RL
Anyway, a few weeks ago, I went out with some friends and got terribly drunk. We were out in a group, which included a bloke I have had a bit of a crush on for years, but nothing more.
So at the end of the night he walked me home because we live fairly close to one another. We were both quite pissed by this point. He kissed me, and I kissed him back, and he told me that he had been wanting to do that since he met me.
However, here's the sticking point, he is married and so am I. I love my DH and my DDs and I don't want to do anything to jeopardise it. But I can't stop thinking about this man. I have only had limited contact with him since (it was about 3 weeks ago)and neither of us have mentioned it, apart from he made some kind of test-the-water sort of comment when I saw him last Saturday, where I just changed the subject swiftly. I have no interest in an affair or anything like that, but I keep imagining me and him together.
DH and I have a good relationship, and as far as I am aware this man is happy with his wife and kids. I feel incredibly guilty about what happened, but at the same time I get al butterfly-ey (is that a word?) at the thought of him.
Please tell me how to get over it!!!!!
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Bloody hell. Help me to get over this, please! It's driving me insane
ohmywordwhatamess · 16/12/2007 20:28
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