I'm getting so pissed off with my friend lately I'm close to giving her a mouthful which I know will upset her and I'll regret but she's so bloody annoying.
She's a single parent with 2 kids and I'm married with 2 kids and despite the fact that my DH works full time and she doesnt, we always seemed to be in similar finantial states. Never had money for christmas, summer holidays, clothes etc and we used to moan together about it. However she always seemed to be able to go on holidays and buy more luxuries then we ever could. One time I upset her by saying "of course you're skint, you're on benefits, what's our excuse?" and she went in a mood for days.
Anyway about 6 months ago she got a job. Only part time in an office and all of a sudden she was loaded. Would go out buying all the most expensive clothes, booked weekends away with the kids and went to shows that I couldnt afford and it annoyed me because she only worked a few days a week and had much more money that us when DH works full time.
Now she keeps going on about all the stuff she's got her kids for christmas when she knows I'm struggling with mine, has said about how she is moving next year to get the kids in a better area/school when she knows I can't and keeps going on about saving up to take the kids to disney world when she knows I cant afford to go to spain.
It irritates me because as I say, DH works all week full time and brings home less than she does working 4 half days a week because tax credits practically double her money and she gets away with council tax rebates etc.
Do I say something to her to make her realise how she comes across or am I being mean?
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Friend is so irritating but doesnt realise
LittleMissHeadache · 16/12/2007 15:35
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