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fedupwithit · 13/12/2007 22:44

Just watched on tv, and yes the question arose who did you loose your virginity to and how old were you. My dh have been married to for 23 yrs together 25 I asked him he cant remember. I know that's not true!! I asked him how old he was remembering he told me once before he was 15 and again he said he cant remember, but he was old!!
Why the big secrecy thing?? I cant stand liars but think I've married a first class one!
Why are men twonks?

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toastedteacake · 13/12/2007 22:47

Why are you bothered?

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fedupwithit · 13/12/2007 22:55

Well I guess I'd just like a bit of honesty! I'm not bothered who why or when, but after all this time it would be so refreshing to say well actually i was *!
Why lie about it in the first place? Its really nothing to lie about.
Or do you really think he can't remember?

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toastedteacake · 13/12/2007 23:01

More than 25 years ago is a long time....... teenagers conquests....... maybe the list is long and he can't remember exactly???!!!

Maybe it was you?

Honesty doesn't come into this, more than 25 years is too long ago IMO. That's a quarter of a century! Give him a break.

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fedupwithit · 13/12/2007 23:10

Sorry, its going to end up one of those off loading posts again. So I'll post and get it off my chest and forget about it.
I'm not working atm yesterday dh came home with 2 nice white rolls, I was on the phone and went upstairs to the office to sort out our finance. When I came down 10 mins later a note to say he couldn't wait, so looked for rolls he had eaten them both (no bread in house.
Today went to see mil, she said that his sister would be going to her in laws for dinner but would drop our pressies off at 8pm on Christmas day night so they would see us then. I hadn't a clue what was going on so asked dh later and he has asked his parents up for tea. Apparently we had discussed it (definitely not) and now his sister has invited herself too! It's not fair if I change the arrangements I'm being a bitch, If I leave them then I'm being a doormat.
Right got that off my chest, now I'm running for cover!

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toastedteacake · 13/12/2007 23:45

He does sound a bit thoughtless, I'd be a bit pee'd off about the bread rolls.

But I'd be livid about making arrangements for Christmas day! Can you turn it round on him? Get some of your relatives to 'pop in'? Or go back to your MiL and thank her for the kind offer of the whole cooked ham for tea, but that there will be plenty of leftovers from lunch so not to bother, but a bottle of something wouldn't go amiss?

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micegg · 14/12/2007 19:02

Am I missing something? What has the title got to do with the subject?

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ElasticAnimal · 14/12/2007 19:10

thin she's fed up!

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paulaplumpbottom · 14/12/2007 19:13

Becauseif he answers,youmight want to talk aboutit. There is the potential to hurt your feelings accidently and he doesn't want to. He is just trying to keep the peace I bet

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KITTYmaspudding · 14/12/2007 19:15

Please do explain what this has to do with getting sex. I was rather hoping for some tips