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Mumsnet has not checked the qualifications of anyone posting here. If you need help urgently or expert advice, please see our domestic violence webguide and/or relationships webguide. Many Mumsnetters experiencing domestic abuse have found this thread helpful: Listen up, everybody

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Relationships

All miserable sign in and let's wallow together

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Ulysees · 28/08/2007 10:51

anyone else?

They say love hurts but that's the biggest understatement!!

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fawkeoff · 28/08/2007 10:52

u ok hun

Ulysees · 28/08/2007 10:56

awww thanks for asking. Yes I'm tough, I'll get over it but it'll take a while to meet anyone if we don't manage to be together, he's that special.

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AbRoller · 28/08/2007 10:59

Is it so bad that you may end up not being together? Sometimes, in the heat of it, things seem irreparable(sp?) but maybe all is not lost?

fawkeoff · 28/08/2007 11:00

yeah it cant be so bad....you had to let him know that she was being a complete witch

Desiderata · 28/08/2007 11:01

Oh, Ulysees

Is this the fella you went to Texas with?

Baffy · 28/08/2007 11:49

Signing in...

FWIW I think you two will be ok (I read your other thread) you haven't done anything wrong and he sounds really angry at her for what she did.

I know exactly what you're going through though

Ulysees · 28/08/2007 18:21

yes we're ok thanks everyone. He got drunk last night and had a really bad head when he rang but didn't blame me one bit. I told him to be cool with her as getting angry isn't going to solve anything and he agreed. But whether he's just saying that time will tell? I just don't want those beautiful kids to suffer as I love them.

Yes Desiderata that's him. He was in Iraq working for a year and he said he went for a vacation to get away from her! now I can see why.

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lou33 · 28/08/2007 18:23

what's happened ulysees?

Ulysees · 28/08/2007 18:26

here Lou

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lou33 · 28/08/2007 21:04

Ulysees · 29/08/2007 01:53

Yes it is shocking isn't it?

All's not good again. I spoke to him tonight and he said she'd tried to make out I'd started the conversation. He said she was lying and he knew it but then said he'd taken her grocery shopping and to buy a gun he needs for hunting. I know she doesn't have a car yet as the one she's getting is in the garage but why for the gun? She needs groceries for the boys but even so surely there's someone else that could take her?
Anyway, I think I'm throwing in the towel. Can't live wondering all the time. As you can see I can't sleep but have to try soon.

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Baffy · 29/08/2007 09:16

Did you manage to get any sleep?

Ulysees · 29/08/2007 09:22

yes thanks baffy but not after ringing him. I told him how I felt as it was eating me up and he said the guy selling the gun was near to the Supermarket and he only took her as time was running late. She has her car this week probably so he said he won't need to ferry her around.
He thinks she's done this on purpose for definite as when she left his truck she said "so are you two ok?" and he said yes we're good, then she said "So you're still going to England?" and he said yes. She looked peeved so he knows as I do she had a hidden agenda. She's unhappy because she was dumped plus she's scared her cash cow will be moving over here. Anyway, he and I are great again and he listened and agreed with me so that's good
Roland Keating was right life is a fecking roller coaster and mine's the Ultimate one right now!!

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fawkeoff · 29/08/2007 09:26

So pleased that things are okay with you 2....next time she tries to pull a dirty stunt like you will be ramming something down her neck......and it wont be a penis

Baffy · 29/08/2007 09:26

Great news!

She's definitely desperate that's for sure. Great that he can see her for what she is though - it will only backfire on her in the end.
Bet you can't wait for him to get over here now! Sounds like you have a great future together...

Ulysees · 29/08/2007 09:39

Thanks you two

lmao at the ramming down her neck

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fawkeoff · 29/08/2007 09:46

well she deserves to be rammed...she is a horrible cow who is trying to piss all over your parade....just get yer brolly out so she doesnt ruin your hair

Ulysees · 29/08/2007 09:53

haha ok I will She'll be feeling pretty bad right now as she's shot herself in the foot. I'm not going to change though, I'll still not pre judge until I make my own assumptions. Plus it's hard to tell what people are really thinking on messenger as there's no intonation. She seemed fairly ok for a weirdo until these comments. Just shows she had a plan.

Anyway, I'm going to try to make my relationship work and not let her spoil it.

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BandofMothers · 29/08/2007 09:58

Oh don't let it get to you, and don't let it ruin your relationship.

I HATE the thought of DH with anyone but me, but he has a history as do we all. You have to trust him and know that he is with you now for a reason. He doesn't want her anymore If he did he would go back to her.

BUT he doesn't he is with you.

Ulysees · 29/08/2007 10:01

no BoM I'm not letting her get to me now. I just felt sick at her comments as it put images in my head I didn't need. Bf and I communticate really well so that makes it easier to carry on. Love is a strong bond and it'll take a lot to split us by the looks of it as this was a very low point and we're up again.

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BandofMothers · 29/08/2007 10:11

Good. Images can be horrid. DH has been with a fair troop of women before me. Age 40 only a couple of long relationships, gorgeous and charming
So I know what you mean, on a milder level.

lou33 · 29/08/2007 12:00

I'm glad her plans arent working uly

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Ulysees · 29/08/2007 14:55

Thanks Lou How are you getting on?

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lou33 · 29/08/2007 17:41

oh not so bad, you know?

Ulysees · 29/08/2007 18:11

Yes I know, life eh?

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