Dh has decided to disown his mother.
She is pretty awful - she never contacts us, never asks about ds, when BIL goes round with his kids (i.e. her grandkids) she asks 'what are you doing here?' and ignores them.
She threw dh out when he was 16 (and buggered off whn he was sitting GCSEs, and he failed them all despite being predicted good grades), but it was HIS fault she did so.
She starts lies about us to the rest of the family. DH never receives a card on his birthday / christmas etc.
When she visited us after ds was born, she was really pi55ed off that I had to go to bed (though dh and baby still there - I was 2 weeks post cs, and a non-sleeping baby) so left.
When we brought DS round when he was 5 months old, she ignored him completely - no interaction whatsoever.
In comparison, her dd is totally spoilt - her bf lives round there and they have everything given to them that they need. When dh got nothing for christmas she had a new car
etc etc
In all, DH feels that to cut out his mother from his life would save him and in the future, ds, from a lot of disappointment.
Basically, how do I support him when he does it?
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anyone 'disowned' their mothers?
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rabster · 22/08/2007 17:53
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