Me and my DP are having a bit of a rough time and whenever we have a big row, (probably every 2 weeks) he shouts at me that I'm a shit mum and how he can do what he wants as he earns the money. In fact he yelled at me being a shit mum the day I came out of hospital after a c-section, apparently his mum didn't hink I was picking the baby up quick enough, I was in tears most of that day. Do most men throw this insult when they are in a foul mood? For the record I think I am a pretty decent mum, we have a 9mo DS.
I have booked a Relate apt for Friday and he is NOT happy about it. Frankly i'm fed up with him being a sulky pig all the time and we need to sort things out sooner rather than later. I'm at the stage where I dread him coming home as he just doesn't seem to want to know me anymore and is more interested in watching the simpsons. Apparently as he works he can do whatever he likes. He is pretty good with our DS though.
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DP calls me a shit mum when we argue.
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Meglet · 22/08/2007 16:37
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