I don't have much of a sex drive but DP keeps going on about it which makes it seem worse. We do have sex sort of every fortnight so its not like its off the menu altogether.
Anyway at weekend he asked me if I was "ok" this weekend, by this he means "are you on your period" . I said I was fine so he replied "oh good cos I bought some condoms". .
So we went out for a meal and a few drinks, when we got back I had a REALLY bad stomach ache, the type where if you lay down you feel it spreading into your back but if you sit up you feel like you're going to explode.
I layed down in bed and had already told him that my stomach was killing me, he said his was too so we assumed it must be the curry we had eaten.
So I laid down flat to try and "stretch it out" and he automtically started touching me , I told him I was in quite a bit of pain and if he just left me alone for a bit I would be ok in half an hour or so. He then moved my hand to his willy and tried to make me "play" with it. I repeated that I felt quite ill and could he leave me alone for a bit so he replied "you know, if you dont feel like sex you could always use your mouth..." I was starting to get really pissed off and told him I wouldnt be doing anything until my stomach ache had gone. With this he turned over and went to sleep!!
Next morning I stayed in bed until gone 10am (kids at their dads) and couldnt lie there any longer listening to him snoring like a pig so got up and went to get in the bath, an hour later he came plodding downstairs saying he desperately needed the toilet , I said he couldnt lie in bed until dinner time and then expect everyone to stop what they are doing when "he" decides to get up so he went in a mood asking me to hurry up.
When I got out the bath he rushed in, made it stink then came out asking why I hadn't woke him up for sex! I told him I had other things on my mind and wanted to get a bath.
So, an hour later the kids are due home in a couple of hours and so I said to him "what do you fancy doing? shall we go out somewhere?" so he "Joked" that we could have sex I gave a fake laugh in a sort of "yeah but really, what should be do for the day?" and he added "well we could...if you wanted to..." .
So I snapped and said "I'm trying to think of somethink we could do for the whole day" and he replied "sorreeey" in a whiney school boy voice.
So, is it me or is it him? honest opinions appreciated.
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Am I Prude or is he an irritating tw*t
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Scroogey · 22/08/2007 15:06
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