Lowdown:-
Have been married 6 years and have three kids. I am married to a good man, but I know he is not the right one for me. We work well as a family unit, but my relationship with him is like we just house-share. We have no intimate relationship and have not been close physically at all for over a year. I don't think we really have a lot in common apart from having three kids. Its just the little things, but its things that matter. We don't really have a rocky relationship, just a distant one. I can tell he loves me and must be going absolutely spare inside when I constantly reject his advances. I don't dislike him at all though. I used to make excuses not to have sex about having young kids and all the hormonal changes that come with it, but I just shrug him away now. i suppose really I havn't fancied him for ages now. We sleep together but there is no interraction. I just don't fancy him at all and am not about the just have sex because I am his wife. All this sounds really miserable for him, but I can say he is generally very happy and we tick over with family life o.k.
I will stay with him though because I don't want to be the one the split up the family. To our kids we are loving mummy and daddy. I know I could do a lot worse than him but I just hope I can go on living with him feeling so distant.
Is there anyone else living together just for the sake of the family.
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O.K is anyone else staying together just for the kids
emptyinside · 14/08/2007 17:12
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