So, not really a regular but been around for nearly a year. Relationship with DP has been rocky for a while and we've tried all sorts over a number of years. The time has finally come to separate, something on which we are both agreed. All the practicalities are in hand, and the kids are largely grown, and he's not their father anyway, so I'm not too concerned about these aspects. I've also been a single parent before so it holds no fear for me.
Even though I've known this was coming for months, if not years, and I also know that we've been making each other miserable and both deserve the chance to move on, and eventually will, I am totally devasted and distressed. I'm weeping a lot, feeling very sorry for myself, and also feeling very stupid because the signs were there that we were not right for each other, from very early on. He moves out at the end of the month and I just don't know how I'm going to get through it without becoming an emotional wreck. It will be easier when he's gone, and we've agreed no contact for a while after he moves out.
Any advice on how I get through the next three weeks with grace and dignity?
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FallenApart · 12/08/2007 20:06
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