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Need some advice as I feel like I am going mad!

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feelingreallylow · 22/07/2007 12:48

I have been with my partner for nearly 6 months. I am now 2 months pregnant which will be his 1st child but my 3rd. I am 23, he is 35. Anyway I seem to be really jealous about everything. He has a myspace account and there is a girl who he is 'mates' with. As her main profile picture she had him and her together which I felt gave the impression they were a couple and one of her comments from before we got together was something like hello my sexy man. Now he claims thats just the way she is but I have told him I don't like it. Was I right to get so annoyed?

Another thing I live with him and I keep telling him to leave when we row. We fell out the other day over smething silly and I told him to pack his things and go. I didn't mean it but during our row he contacted his dad and asked him to come and collect him the nex day. By then we had sorted things out and his mum called to check things were ok. Now my boyfriend has told me his mum said that he should just back back and live with his parents as the situation isnt going to change. I feel really annoyed by this as it seems like his mum doesn't seem to care that we are having a baby or that my children have a bond with him. How would you all feel?

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mamazon · 22/07/2007 12:52

you have not been together long enough to be living together and certainly not to be contemplating having a child.

i think that as you are already pregnant you need to slow things down and take it all one day at a time.

yes you should ask him to move out. youshould then start dating.....you know, like your parents used to.

that way you will actually get to know each other properly. the myspace account is nothing to be worried about or else you wouldn't even know about it.
i would also worry quite a lot about a man of 35 having to call his parents in to sort is relationship out.

take a few steps back and see how it pans out. it may be that you are just not suited together, something youw ouold have found out had you not rushed in so fast in the first place

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