My father married his 2nd wife 30 years ago (I'm 38), they split up about 15 years ago and he seems to have been having an affair hen with the woman he is still with, his former secretary. I never got on with SM1, and she hated me. I was the rival to her DD, who is 2 yrs older and who my dad adopted. However she was always all over my brother. We last saw each other 17 years ago at my SS' wedding. She spent hr time giving me death stares and demanding sympathy forhow much she had 'suffered'. Anyhow, my bro is now fed up with our dad so has renewed contact with SM1. He reported that they had acosy evening slagging me off. She genuinely blames me for (as she sees it) creating tensions in her marriage and for both her and my dad playing off me against her daughter - Please note we only spent school holidays together, and then only the long ones. I feel very angry that this woman is re-entering my life. She's now offering my bro some of her furniture. I think he's being v naive if he thinks this is ever going to help anyone- in fact, SM2 is a very nice woman and I get on well with her, but my bro hasn't bothered to get to know her. I smell a rift on its way and would like t avoid it. Does anyone have any suggestions about what is going on? Sorry for rambling.
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