I feel so low.
I recently told DH I was leaving him because did not want to deal with the fallout of his drinking anymore. He finally admitted he has a drinking problem and said he would seek help.
He then got such a bad infection in his foot that he couldn't walk for 3 weeks, so I had to look after him as his parents refused to help.
He has been trying really hard and has just about been keeping his drinking under control but last night he went on another bender. He knows I have had it and has been on the phone apologising and trying to make things better.
We have 3 very young kids and I find this so hard to deal with. I don't know if I have the strength to leave him.
I have phoned al-anon and will try to go to my first meeting on Monday. However, from what I understand they just help you deal with living with a drinker and I don't know if I want to continue doing that.
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My husband went on another bender last night
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manicmama · 20/07/2007 13:32
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