eleven years of marriage. six years beofre. that is fifty percent of my ENTIRE life i have wasted on this man.

[cylonbabe]

happy anniversary to me.
i wish people would stop saying that.
and i wish i could stop being so bloody miserable aboutit.
arrrrrrrrrrrrrrghhhhhhhhhhh..............

[Elasticwoman]

What's wrong with him?

[cylonbabe]

he's a git.
a selfish git with tunnel vision who thinks the entrie world should revolve around him. who thinks he has married beneath himself, but knows he has married above hiself. who only thinks of things in monetary terms
etc

[expatinscotland]

then why waste more time on him?

[lulumama]

is it not time to ditch him, and enjoy the rest of your life ?

[FioFioJane]

do you only come when you're on top?

[lucykate]

so sorry you feel this way cb

have got to ask, fio, have you posted that on the right thread?

[charliecat]

I laughed when I read that fio...why are you asking that??!!

[cylonbabe]

fio i dont come. period.
havent done so for many years.

why dont i leave? because i'm a sad little person who needs a good kick up her backside to do anything at all in life. let alone something as big as this.
so i guess we suit each other.

[FioFioJane]

I just thought he sounded like a selfish wanker that was all...

[cylonbabe]

he is one

[Elasticwoman]

He must have done something right, at some stage. Did he, for example, give you any children?

[cylonbabe]

sorry everyone. was in a really bad place yuesterday. hopefully am over it.
yes elasticwoman. three. in fact last night, eleven years ago was probly when ds1 was concieved. though it may have been tonight
am very unhappy with current state of life. yet kept thinking that if i went back intime to that girl, all dressed up in her wedding dress, and told her not tomarry him, she'd have kicked me out the door. no. she would have had someone else kick me out.
he has done things right over time. various examples over the years.
anywyas, thank you for listning to me rant.

[Elasticwoman]

cb - sounds like marriage worth saving. How are u gonna tackle issues that bother u?