well thats it really, my dp of 8 years is making me so unhappy i don't think i can take much more. Really worried that I'm close to breaking point, his behaviour and attitude towards me is so negative and despite reassurances from friends it is really dragging me down. I have four wonderful kids, a tidy and clean home, i work part time, yet its never enough. I spend my whole life trying to justify myself to a man who believes he has it harder than anyone else as he works twelve hour nights. He won't talk to me about our relationship, declares he pretty muuch hates me and that he feels stuck with me, tells me I'm not a proper woman even though I know i am, because apparently I do nothing for him. I feel so tired, so dragged down, and quite honestly depressed.
Stupid thing is as a family unit we are great, always off doing things, picnics, walks, camping, festivals, football etc, i can't bear the thought of losing all that really i can't, it can be so wonderful, but am really beginning to think its at my sanity's expense
Just needed to vent really, not sure what anyone can say.
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Its just getting so unbearable
quadrophenia · 17/07/2007 10:38
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