Ok last year met someone at work, instant attraction, very flirty behaviour and lots of conversation with inneuendos. Finally culminated in us getting together on a night out however he then told me he had a gf at which point it was a no go. I then moved areas and lo and behold 5 months later he got a job in the same area. We have seen each other in between this and have still been really friendly never really talked about that night, he never talks about his gf. Since working together all the converstions hae started agian the standing too close etc. It was giving me brain ache so I asked him straight out how he felt only for him to say it was just friends because that was all it ever could be. Didn't really believe him so pushed it and he told me he was just sticking his head in the sand. Cut a long story short we got together again on a night out last week after his gf had left, awful I know he was being very flirty even when she was there. Since then he's been texting me but then said tonight that it couldn't happen again it mustn't happen again and we were friends just friends. I got very upset as I sad I felt he was the one who was leading it. He has apologised profusely and gone on to say how attractive I am and he can't bear to loose my friendship. I'm struggling with this would you not just back off and not be worried about loosing a friend if your realtionship was in trouble I aslo think he's protesting a bit too much. Would like to just ignore him but it's really hard as we work so closely. Lot of the team have been passing comments about our closeness recently. Sorry very long but can't sleep.
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