Does anyone have any tips on how to deal with jealously?
I've been with my DP for almost half a year now. We were together a couple of years ago, but we split up as we both had other commitments we needed to put first before each other.
However, now that we've been back together, I've learnt that at his new job there's a handful of women who fancy him there. That I can deal with. They know he's with me, however it hasn't stopped a couple of them from throwing themselves at him, and even being cheeky enough to kiss him on the lips. I was pleased he told me, but I couldn't deal with knowing how he dealt with it. I told him I'd like to think he told them to stop it and that he's with me, however, I don't think he has, and probably just laughed it off.
However one of these girls keeps sending him messages saying that she misses him when he's not at work, and always sending him her love. It's annoying me, and I keep getting that jealous feeling kick up in me. I really want to go smash her head into a wall.
How can I tackle this, so I don't mess things up when I know that he wouldn't do anything if she tries it on.
Thanks. xxx
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