I've posted before about this but basically, 11 years ago at the age of 15 I developed a huge crush on a bloke out of relatively unknown rock band, I've never actually met him but during my "stalking" years I did get to speak to him on the phone, I spoke to him via email as a variety of different persona's and after a while I did get bored of it and it stopped. However now, at the age of 25 the "crush" has returned, well it returned last year and the obsession grew enough for me to contact the poor bloke again and we had pretty lengthy conversations over email which... during my most stupid hours actually got me thinking maybe we could end up together at some point...I realise how daft this was but it didnt stop me thinking about him.
Anyway last year he split from his long term girlfriend, sounds awful but I was delighted...anyway I've just read a piece that he'd written on his website about the work he's currently doing but one thing he said stood out...he said "I've realised the net isnt a great place to meet girls, be careful, there are some nutters out there ready to pounce from the most unlikely places".
I was a little pee'd off by this but then I said to myself "what the fuck am I doing sitting here holding out stupid hopes that some bloke I have never even met may some day look at me???" It's suddenly hit me how stupid all this is (I've known for a while but today it really hit me how much time I waste thinking about this person), I don't know why this obsession has grown to such a ridiculous level but I want it to stop...bare in mind it's stuck with me for 10+ years so far so it's not just going to go away by "not thinking about him".
Any words of wisdom other than "you're a freak"?
Also, does anyoene have any experience of this kind of thing? (i.e. crush's that went "too far")
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Thaigal · 08/01/2007 11:44
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