My Dp is incredibly stressed at the moment. So much so that he has not been sleeping and last night woke me up in the middle of the night having a panic attack, then was very upset and in tears. I am really worried about him.
It's all work related. He's has just started a new job and is finding it very hard. he seems to get through the day ok but he has the sort of personality that makes him over analyse, worry and be very self critical - this is combined with a lack of confidence in his abilities (although as far as I know he is good at his job and was the outstanding candidate for the one he's just started).
I don't know how to support him. I am a naturally optimistic, unstressed type of person and I can't relate to this at all. I have tried to talk things through with him but it seems to make things worse rather than better. Any advice would be very welcome.
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How do you best support someone through stress and panic attacks?
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puddle · 05/01/2007 10:24
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