I have a Windows Live Space thing and I write down a blog thing on it. One day Months ago (whilst drunk) I wrote about the thing that was annoying me that day and it happened to be the fact that DSD has a sister she doesn't know about. Then forgot I wrote it. DSD doesn't read the blog she is only 12 and more interested in other sites.
Unknown to me she has given out my email address and her friends have found the site and read the entry. They told her about it. DSD's BM phoned up understandably very annoyed. DP has also got very annoyed with me and stopped speaking to me. Not even civilly. It is as if I don't exsist. (Don't blame him actually) He told me to not speak to him or DSD and stay well away from BM as she is on the war path.
I've apologised but the damage is done. I don't know what to do now. DSD needed to find out about her sister as DP is spending more time with her but it needed to come from DP and her BM not her friends.
The back ground history is DP and BM had split up for a few months and DP left BM and DSD (Who was about 3). He met someone else and she fell pregnant but before DP found out he sorted things out with BM and moved back. When DP found out he was already with BM. BM wasn't happy and wanted the whole thing forgotten about. DP pays child support and recently started seeing the girl who is now about 8. The girl knows about DSD and our DD and has said she would like to meet them both so the issue would have to be raised soon but not like this.
I feel sick and the room keeps spinning I love DSD like my own and really hate the way things have happened. I don't know whether DP and BM have admitted that the girl is her sister or denied it as they keep doing (BM isn't convinced the girl is DP's so won't accept her)
Help me I don't know what to do.
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snowytyphoonsmum · 05/01/2007 09:22
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