That's about the gist of it. Actually I know Xmas is a busy time, & it is dd's near xmas too. But they remembered hers! His was yesterday & they didn't visit. They live about 30 steps away. They had been out in the morning, then we went out & their car wasn't there, so assumed they had gone shopping & we would see them later. When we came home their car wasn't home but it was only 4.30 so assumed they would still be up later to see ds.
I ended up calling MIL at 6.45 for a whole other reason, I mentioned we had been out shopping & she said they had been also & I didn't mention Ds's b'day until the end of the phonecall, I said "Oh I was talking to today, she called to wish ds a happy day" she said "Oh that was nice, talk soon, Byee"
I stood there looking at the phone.... shocked to the core. Now, I know they had given ds his gift before Xmas, but for me it wasn't about the gift...
Then today FIL came in to the house, he looked at ds & said "We forgot all about it being your birthday yesterday" I was clean mad... I actually said "What? You only have 1 grandson, how could you forget??" They also only have 1 grandaughter (dd) and didn't forget hers. He said there was that much to remember what with it being Xmas and everything... I had to leave the room.
We have had issues in the past where they have made a huge difference in the kids, and I have tried working with them as I took responsibility for half the problems before... but it seems to me that everytime I think we are getting somewhere they fuck up!!
I am unsure what to say to MIL when I next see her, I don't want an argument but I also want them to know that my mum has 17 grandkids & didn't forget about ds
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*another MIL rant* they forgot ds bday
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fireflyxmasfairylights2 · 28/12/2006 14:42
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