ok so about 3 years ago I found out DH had cheated on me for about 8 months with some random he met at a works party. After a lot of talking we sorted what we could and I decided that we would try to make things work.
so now its mostly been going well the usual ups and downs but I haven't forgiven and I haven't forgotten.
At the time he told me it was some girl that he chatted to at a works party (not from his work) but this hasn't always sat right with me... I don't know just like a gut feeling that he's not being honest. There were comments etc before I found out that now make me think it was possibly someone he worked with. He has told me he has no reason to lie to me which is true to an extent I guess, but I cant shift this feeling it just keeps playing on my mind.
I want to ask him again and I want the truth BUT what IF I am wrong? and i'm pushing for answers that aren't there? I know its expected that I have lost trust in him after what he had done but he did everything he could to earn that trust back to where we are now.
Would you push for an answer and rock the boat again after things have been going well or do you think my mind is just questioning trust/making up scenarios?
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wwyd? push for an answer about ow?
imawigglyworm · 02/09/2014 22:01
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