Today ds (pfb) started YR. I woke up feeling in a great mood, feeling like this is special day for us all as a family, not just ds. H was grumpy and tired from the onset so our moods didn't quite match and as a reaction I started getting a bit irritated as we were all getting ready to drop ds at school. Anyway fast forward to pick up and h did something really irritating and a bit weird (involved him making me and ds wait around at the school rather than focusing on ds and his special moment. This resulted in a major blow up argument and I totally lost my temper with h. Although I 'just' hissed at him in anger ds overheard some of this . I felt so low for the rest of the afternoon and didn't feel able to play with ds or be positive and involved with him. . Anyway h then said to me "come on, why don't you play with ds to which I just flipped. We then had quite strong words which ds overheard again. So he had a wee accident, for whic I blame us, his parents the first in probably a year. I feel so absolutely shit and don't know where I stand. I am so fed up of h and don't know what to do. He has tried apologizing but I just can't stand him right now. I feel sick.
[i understand that there are much more serious issues being discussed on this forum and that this is probably a ridiculously minor thing) I should probably just get a grip.
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I am disappointed and hurt (and angry) re ds's first day at school
Butterflytree · 02/09/2014 16:58
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