Hello everyone, following my last thread a few weeks ago, we are back from holiday and my boyfriend of 3 years and I start our living together month tomorrow. A bit of background is that we are nearly 40, I devorced with 2 dc's youngest is nearly 10. He has never married before nor has Dc's.we spend 4-5 nights together but he has been reluctant to move in fully.
After a heart to heart in April in which he explained his fear of ruining the bast relationship he has ever had ( he thinks couples loose their individuality and stop making an effort when they live together) we decided we would do a trial for a month because after 3 years, I felt we can move to the next stage.
I suggested we bought a new be together which arrived today, he asked if he could have a bachelor day today, so he is spending tonight at his, the first weekend alone for nearly 3 years. I am excited but also fear how I would respond if after the trial he decided to move back to his. Hand holding please, some experiences of similar would be appreciated.
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Living together trial starts tomorrow (feeling a little anxious)
Lifeisforlivingkatie · 30/08/2014 23:03
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