I'm happily married to a wonderful man but 6 years ago I was in a horribly emotionally abusive relationship with a man who did his best to destroy me.
I've had counselling and moved on but just occasionally I'll have flashbacks to things he's said or done and I'll cry about it. Just the sheer cruelty that someone could show to another person. There's no feeling of love or wanting to be with him.
How can I move on from this? It's not affecting my life or relationship in a major way but I do feel on some level it's a betrayal of my husband that an ex can still illicit such a response from me.
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Flashbacks to abusive relationship 6 years on
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NoArmaniNoPunani · 20/08/2014 11:36
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