Just that really, do you and your DP go to bed at the same time? Or does one of you go and the other follow later? For the most part, my DP and I go to bed together, after watching a bit of tv or something. Lately (we've been together less than a year) there's been a couple of nights where I've been shattered, and he hasn't - I've fallen asleep on the sofa and then have come up to bed whilst he's stayed down and watched a film or whatever. This in theory is fine - however, I'm really struggling with it for some reason. I'm prone to bad anxiety over the most random things, and this seems to have really triggered it. Like now, he's downstairs - I know he might fall asleep on the sofa and that's fine, at 4am I'll wake up thinking he did it on purpose to avoid being in bed with me. I don't know why I'm finding this such a big deal, when it's fine isn't it? Surely lots of couples go to bed at different times? Like I said, a grip needed here!
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Do you & your DP go to bed at the same time? A grip needed here!
BlueberryMuffins76 · 20/08/2014 00:30
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