So, tiny bit of background. I was with my ex for 4 years, we lived together and had a DC together. A few weeks ago we broke up (his choice but I agreed it was right). Very amicable, we're both happier single, have actually had some nice days out together since and he's started counselling as he's depressed.
My parents were furious when we broke up (totally with him, thinking he had dumped me for no reason blah blah). I got no blame at all. I tried to set the record straight when my dad asked how furious he should be and I explained, we just have fallen out of love and are happier being friends with a child.
They're still being really difficult, for example, dad was meant to be helping me do some house stuff but now won't in case he bumps into xDP. Never mind that me and xdp are ok... I don't know how to explain to the parents that they shouldn't hate him!
Dad and him were like best friends before this happened. I suspect it's partly because my parents have been together since 16 and don't understand why every relationship isn't like theirs.
It was kind of down to mn that we split up. I suddenly realised how controlling he was as a partner!
I was going to put this in AIBU. But I'm scared of them.
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My parents hate my ex
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Freebirdy · 19/08/2014 18:46
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