I've posted about going NC with SiL. Was the right choice and I feel like a different person because of it.
MiL visited recently. Was concerned she'd mention SiL and I not speaking but luckily it didn't come up.
Problem now is MiL wants DS to stay for a week in the holidays. I don't want him to go.
SiL lives with MiL and bullied DS as much as she bullies me. Last time she visited every time DS opened his mouth he got a verbal slap and she nags him about everything. For example; we were in a restaurant, DS was full and had left some chicken. I was fine with it, don't mind if children don't 'finish their plate'. SiL launched into a huge attack on him and told him that we'd take it home and 'he could eat it cold covered in bits of napkin.'
I did stand up for him and decided at that point that I was done with her.
I came on here, talked about it, researched Narcissism and cut her out of my life. It's been a few months now and I'm loads happier.
But how do I turn down MiL's offer for him to stay? I'm pretty sure she's completely blind to SiL's true character. DP is too, actually. He just calls it 'attitude'.
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