and often pops into the house, he shouldn't expect me to drop everything the moment he walks in the house?
I literally feel i can never get on with anything because I am always interrupted!
He feels he neglected his first wife so seems to think he has to keep appearing on my days off and having a coffee or turns up for breakfast any time between 7:30 and 9 and therefore expects me to have breakfast with him every day. Dinner last night was fitted round his schedule and often is.
We had a row this morning because I'm going away to my family for a few days and he came in to say goodbye (meaning he expected me to sit and have breakfast with him) at a time he knew id still be packing and getting ready but apparently he's juggled his work round do I should therefore give him my time and carry on packing when he had gone.
I can see his point today but it's every day that I have to stop doing whatever I'm doing because "he's juggled his work so he can see me".
I have told him that I need some space sometimes and constant interruptions on my days off aren't necessary but he says he likes to see me and then I feel guilty.
Whatever I'm doing at home might not be "important" but I can't seem to be able to get on with anything and heaven forbid I ever want some privacy, I can't even take a shit without him interrupting me!
I haven't watched a film or opened a book for months. I can't sort out the house paperwork or even dust the cobwebs without him expecting me to stop what I'm doing and talk to him.
It's not bloody normal is it and I've been too nice haven't I?
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Aibu to think just because he works close to home.....
thebluehen · 31/07/2014 21:45
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