Have nn changed for this.
I don't know, I feel like I'm getting a bit upset over nothing but I'm not sure.
Years ago (around 7 or 8 years ago) when DH and I were quite new together I discovered a porn stash on his computer. I felt upset by this as it made me feel like I wasn't enough or doing enough and why did he feel the need to look at it. if it was something we looked at together it would be one thing, but it felt a bit like he was going behind my back. I spoke to DH about it and he said it wasn't a big thing, he'd deleted everything and wouldn't look again, he wasn't bothered about it. Nothing has since been mentioned or referred to about this.
So I've just been on his computer to do something and found out he seems to relatively regularly (as in weekly, sometimes more, sometimes less) looking at provocative/naked/semi naked pictures of celebs. They seem to originate from yahoo news and links he must see as he's browsing and looks on them. Some pictures have just been looked at once and others he has been back to/seen a number of times kate middletons bum
I don't know whether this is just completely normal behaviour and I'm making a fuss feeling a bit let down/upset. I don't know whether DH is actively going against what we agreed since it's not actual porn on proper porn sites. I don't really know what to think but I feel a bit upset about it all. Any clarity and judgement from an outsider would be appreciated. I don't know whether to bring this up with DH or not as he'll know I was nosing at his internet history...
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AIBU to feel a bit let down by DH over his internet history
TwistAndPout · 31/07/2014 09:45
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