Long time lurker and posted about 2 yrs ago. Separated from DH 2.5 yrs ago. Mainly due to me had an EA with ex colleague but could not get back to where I once was with DH. EA made me realise how things were in marriage I craved love and affection..DH very nice man kind generous good father. He was and still is very upset over the break up. I was never head over heels 'in love' but obviously felt enough to get married and have children (first daughter unplanned brought us together). Have since met someone else who is nice and I love? What is love? Def fancy him etc... I can't fully commit for some reason... As in I don't want to burn my bridges with ex..I wish my children would be brought up by both parents. Ex thinks I should put kids first and give it another go? He knows of new relationship. So confused as would love a normal life. Working in demanding role being a single mum with young kids is hard..what would you do? I haven't found ex attractive for many years not sure I ever did but I liked the good person he was/is... So confused ..regret EA and letting marriage go to tatters.. Thanks for reading!
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