It's nearly a year since I discovered my husband's affair. He completely followed the script described on here. Begged to come back, I was his soul mate, love of his life etc. but he was still carrying on with her. Divorce underway. I have been forced to spend thousands on legal fees. He's contesting everything funded by his rich father. I know the advice on here was right. Leave him, he was hideous. But a year on. He's got some other woman saying he's wonderful. I've got no money as I'm fighting for the house I paid for, the kids think he's great as he buys them things I can't afford. My 8 year old daughter today said she'd like to live with him as he buys lots of loom bands, I feel worthless. Just back from a holiday I had to fund from eBay sales and he's still considered the better parent. Should I just accept that maybe I just wasn't good enough. Maybe she's a better parter to him and would be a better mother to them. I feel so inadequate. Everyone else posts triumphant posts a year on. Great lives, better men etc but I just feel I've moved on saddled with legal debt trying to compete with him
And his partner for the kids. Does it ever get better?
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Onmyownwith4kids · 30/07/2014 01:14
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