Hi all never been here before but I feel like its a last resort. I'm 26 married with two kids one is two and tend other is nine months. Since falling pregnant with number two I had to give up my job, we both decided it was for the best as I was on minimum wage and child are is so expensive, I said to my husband don't mind being an at home mother just as king as he helps when he's at home and shows some appreciation. Has any of that happened? No. When number two was born we discovered it was a she and from that moment husband hasn't really wanted anything to do with her and treats me like his servant. All he has done since being pregnant is lie about quitting smoking, spend anytime he is at home playing games on this stupid iPad,if it's not games it's porn I'm sure bushes learnt how to clear the history so who knows. He practically ignores me when he's home except when he's telling me off for leaving the dishwasher full of clean stuff, he refuses to eat my cooking but complains about having to do that.
He talks to me like I'm a child then when we go to bed he wants sex, if he does get it afterwards he just rolls over and goes to sleep.
I have tried so many waxy to try a cage through t him but he doesn't listen, hex never eve apologised for any of the times he has upset me it's driving me mad, I don't get a break from the kids or from him, I feel like I'm being pulled in all directions. I was also diagnosed with pnd after number two was born and all he could do was tell me that if we lose the kids it's my fault, there's been no support, comfort, reassurance or communication with him in months. It wax our wedding anniversary last week had got me nothing and didn't even have the decency to open the card I got him of ash thank you off the verb expensive wine bought him. I've thought about leaving hind before and friends have suggested if as a wag to shock him into doing something about his behaviour, but I'm tired of trying with him, should I just tell him to go?
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1tiredmummy · 28/07/2014 13:23
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