I'm 45, single mum to 7 year old and don't really go out much.
I take care of myself, dress nicely, I've been told I'm attractive and I get on with most people.
So why do men just want a 'bunk' up with me? I'll give this example:
I met a guy last weekend, in a pub and was introduced by his sister who I know from a distance. She said he'd seen me, thought I was attractive so we got talking after she introduced us.
We spent most of the evening together and got on well. Came to end of night and both he and his sister thought I'd be taking him home with me
This was clearly a no but we'd already exchanged numbers before this. He has been in touch, and all the text messages mention is prowess in the bedroom. How he's a morning person and can I keep up!
I haven't even been on a date with this guy! I'm just so damn fed up of meeting guys like this.
I'm no prude and if I wanted to sleep with him on a 3rd date I would. But this assumption gets me down.
I don't go out much and I've been divorced and single for 5 years now. So am I expecting too much and is this what the dating scene is like now?
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mummytowillow · 27/07/2014 09:43
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