Hand holding needed pleased as I feel shell shocked. Was with my ex for 4 years and I thought he was the one. Talked marriage, kids, everything. He got really distant a few months ago and I suspected he was seeing someone else. He denied it but I never found out for sure. Then he just cut contact and stopped meeting me, refused to talk things through. I never got any closure and I still feel a bit lost about it all. This only happened a month ago. It really hurt.
I just looked on a dating site (not to date anyone, just out of curiosity as some friends have been talking about it. I don't even have a photo on there) and saw my ex on there. It made me feel sick.
His profile is full of pictures that I took of him, lifted from my Facebook. He talks about how he's a genuine guy, quick witted, fun etc. As I was reading it, I felt so angry. He treated me like crap in that last month. Made me feel unwanted, cheated, I'd wasted 3 years on someone who just saw me as an option. He has moved on so quickly, like I didn't exist and is on to some other poor girl, probably. He's all charm on there but when he was with me those last few months, he acted grumpy and bored, like he didn't want to be there. The opposite of his online persona.
Just feel upset and angry. Can't believe him. The other night I thought about texting him because I was actually bloody missing him. To him, it's like I didn't exist.
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Ex on dating site - hand holding please
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