Sorry it's abit long, and I'm pretty sure I want to leave him but just want a kick up the ass.
Been with oh for 18 months now and I thought I was in love with him, but I'm really not so sure now. He's controlling, jealous and possessive. For example I went to asda yesterday eve and e questioned why I took so long! He checks my phone and Facebook and I can't even look in the same direction as another guy without getting a dirty look from him. He's lazy, never listens, says he's going to change but never does.
I've lost my job because of his possessiveness (if that's a word) and house because I stupidly moved in with him and he got into arrears. I'm only 20 and I feel so trapped in this dead end relationship I want to leave but don't know how to do it, every time we speak about it he gets so angry threatens me and on occasion has been violent so that's why I'm so worried. I don't want to give up on his but I honestly don't know what I could do to make him change. I'm miserable, I do nothing all day everyday I'm 20 years old and get excited to go food shopping!
I know my mum would support me and let me move back in but she thinks we still live at his and I have a job, I never would lie to my mum like this but i just don't know what's happened to me. I've never been so unhappy in my life. I just need someone to talk to :(
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Aym95 · 23/07/2014 02:12
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