No cheating (as far as I know).
Been together a year. Found out a few months ago he had been taking coke. I was devastated. He used to be addicted to a different drug (hard) in his past. 10 years clean.
A few weeks ago I found out he was using coke again. Cue more devastation/promises he'd never do it again. Felt really close.
I then found prescription drugs he'd been taking. The thing is he hid that from me. When I confronted him he said he isn't addicted to them (which I actually believe) but added that I'm not his wife. Ok I'm not.
I can't trust him. I love him. I wonder where this will end. What else will I find out? After the coke chat he said I could ask him anything. So today I asked how he was and he got defensive.
Am I being controlling? I'm moving my boundaries back each time. He gets so angry but can be do lovely. I'm a mess and doubting myself. Am I over reacting? Any advice or comments good or bad will be much appreciated. I just need some perspective on this.
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2fargone · 23/07/2014 00:57
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