DP and I have been bickering a lot over the past few days as a result of misunderstandings, tiredness and, admittedly, my PMS. The atmosphere is quite tense, but he keeps doing weird things like casually showing me pictures of his friends (gym fanatics) topless and asking me whose abs I think are best. (I'm not into muscular men much and like DP as he is, but think he's trying to catch up with them.)
This makes me uncomfortable, firstly because I don't particularly want to see his friends without their shirts on, and secondly because I certainly don't want to have to 'rate' them! I explain this to DP, but he seems to think that I am just lying because apparently most ladies just fall at their feet (he hasn't said this, but this is the impression I'm getting.)
With the atmosphere already being so tense, this is just making me want to scream. It's causing unnecessary trust issues but I don't know how to approach it without another argument erupting.
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DP asking me to 'rate' his friends
UnderEstherMate · 22/07/2014 21:34
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