Just curious, Im talking about moving in together, getting married etc.
I moved in with my partner around 6 weeks ago so still early days I have 4 children with my ex and had been a single parent for 4 years.
So on paper (eg working tax credit, council tax etc) I am no longer a single parent and im fine with that BUT in reality nothing has changed. I mean I dont expect him to start running around after the kids and disciplining them etc. He is great with them at playing and chatting and tbh I am happy with how things are but as a mum I feel like nothing has changed in the house apart from hes there every night and hes company for me.
And after a conversation with my mum today she has said I will always be a single mum in reality with or without a man, she is a very negative person best of times (with reason the crap shes had in her life) but I just felt quite unsettled by it cant explain really, but it did make me realise that omg shes right nothing has changed at all... Should I be expecting it to?
I mean as I said They are my children and I dont want him taking over or anything, hes still finding his feet and the kids are still finding theirs having him here all the time.
I know im rambling but just curious to know how others have dealt with the changes, and hoping that I will feel less of a single parent at some point, especially as pregnant
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mums who get in new relationships, do you still see yourself as a single parent?
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crazylady321 · 21/07/2014 23:10
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