Yesterday h told me that I have been lazy for 20 years (actually been together for 18 years but you get the gist). I am supposed to be clearing the dcs' rooms (which are messy) to prove that I care, but can't find the energy to get past h's sulking and being called lazy.
Was trying to tell h that he or our relationship makes me feel anxious and depressed which is one of the reasons some things don't get done, but he wasn't having any of it.
So h has gone away until Friday evening, how do I stop ruminating over being called lazy etc... and get on with stuff I need to do.
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How to get over the horrible things your partner says to you
tisrainingagain · 16/07/2014 16:46
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