Actually yes, it will have been 4 years ago .
My problems having sex now are -
6 weeks after dd1 he made me have sex because his mate, the army doctor, said 6 weeks post birth was 'normal'. I had stitches but he made me because his doctor mate said so. I had to go and be restiched.
After Dd2 he had 6 weeks in his head and that was THE date he could do it again. Forced again. The doctor at my post natal clinic asked if I wanted to call the police.
Dd3 and he was away for 6 months, he came back when I was 8 months pregnant and had looked after 2 babies for 6 months. He made me have sex every night because he'd been away.
This is 30 years later and the trauma in my heart is overwhelming. He got very cross today but I can't explain that 30yrs of forced sex has driven me mad.
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I can't remember the last time we had enjoyable sex
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C0rdelia · 29/06/2014 00:18
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