My dh had a work meeting with this girl he knows. He runs his own business. He told me about it and I was fine. I've met her before and she seems nice. Trouble is by work meeting, he actually meant a day out in the city taking a very nice lunch and visiting several cafés for coffee. He would normally hold such meetings in his office over phone or an hour meeting In town. He also didn't charge this girl for his time because they are friends.
To me this sounds like a date! A very nice date!
The other thing is this girl is 10 years younger than us and looks like a certain celebrity he rather fancies!
He says they are friends (no different to his regular male friends)
I don't know anyone that has friends of opposite sex that they go out with like that! I have male friends at work and husbands of friends etc but I would never dream of going out alone with them like that. As a group is fine, as is with my partner etc.
We have had a massive argument and I've been in tears! It spiralled out of control and he shouted at me for:
hating all his friends (he does always try to arrange stuff and can't say no but this simply is not true. But some weekends I just want me and him!)
hating his mum (I've met her a handful of times as she lives in a different country, she pushes religious beliefs on me and I get anxious as I believe something else)
and hating his job (we have the usual arguments about working hours, his job can be unsociable but I don't think it's anything any other couple doesn't argue about)
Other thing is I'm pregnant with our first. Feeling fat and unsexy! This has really hurt me!
Aibu and just hormonal or is what he did plain dodgy?
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Lime8 · 07/06/2014 09:27
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