I've been single for a year now and I was with my ex for 19 years prior to that so I've been out of the dating game for a long time. I had no boyfriend before my ex so you can see why I don't know what the hell I'm doing.
BUT I like someone! This is great if only for the fact that it means I'm finally moving on and this in itself makes me feel so happy. I want to know if he likes me too and ask him out but I'm terrified of the rejection.
We work in the same place but not together. I see him everyday and I think he probably knows I like him. I've noticed him looking at me (or maybe I'm imagining it) and he quite often turns up where I usually am now too. But he doesn't speak to me, just whoever else is there (quite often behind me).
We work in a school and my last day before half term is Thursday. He may be out on a trip that day (not sure) and I was thinking of just giving him a note tomorrow with my number and asking him to text me if he's interested.
Is that too forward? Am I setting myself up to look like an idiot? Any other suggestions?
Please help. I turned 40 in November and am now thinking life is too short for missing out but I really am clueless at all this stuff!
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Asking someone out - please help, I'm useless!
Whiskwarrior · 21/05/2014 01:35
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